TLDR;
- Most retargeting fails because it's lazy. Blasting the same ad at everyone who visited your site is a surefire way to waste money. Segmentation based on user intent is everything.
- The message must match the platform and the audience's funnel stage. A cart abandoner on Instagram needs a different ad than a blog reader you're retargeting on LinkedIn.
- Your offer is still the most likely point of failure. If your core proposition is weak, no amount of clever retargeting will save it. You must solve an urgent, expensive problem for your customer.
- Stop obsessing over cheap clicks. The only metric that truly matters is your Lifetime Value (LTV) to Customer Acquisition Cost (CAC) ratio. Use our interactive LTV calculator in this guide to figure out how much you can really afford to spend.
- A successful cross-platform strategy isn't about just being everywhere; it's about creating a cohesive journey that guides a user from awareness to conversion, using each platform's unique strengths.
Let's be brutally honest. Most cross-platform retargeting is just expensive digital stalking. Businesses are told to "follow users around the internet," so they upload a list of website visitors, run the same tired creative on Google, Meta, and LinkedIn, and then wonder why they're burning cash with nothing to show for it. They treat retargeting as a simple switch to flip, rather than the nuanced conversation it needs to be. The truth is, you are actively paying the world's most powerful advertising machines to annoy people who have already decided they're not interested.
The problem isn't the technology; it's the strategy. A person who bounced from your homepage in five seconds is not the same as someone who spent ten minutes reading a case study, or someone who abandoned a £500 shopping cart. Lumping them all into one "Website Visitors" bucket and showing them the same "Buy Now!" ad is the digital equivalent of shouting the same sales pitch at everyone who walks past your shop. It's lazy, ineffective, and expensive.
To master retargeting, you need to stop thinking about audiences and start thinking about intent. What did their actions on your site tell you about their problem? How close are they to making a decision? Answering these questions is the first step to turning your ad spend into a predictable revenue engine instead of a cost centre.
So, why does most retargeting feel like a waste of time?
The core issue is a complete misunderstanding of the advertising funnel. Most marketers treat it as a two-step process: cold traffic, and then "retargeting." This is a massive oversimplification. A user's journey is much more complex, and your retargeting needs to reflect that. You can't just throw everyone who has ever interacted with your brand into one pot. That's how you end up with campaigns where your ads keep showing to customers who have already purchased, burning your budget and annoying your best clients.
A proper strategy segments users based on how deep they are in your funnel. We call this a Top-of-Funnel (TOFU), Middle-of-Funnel (MOFU), and Bottom-of-Funnel (BOFU) approach. Someone who watched 10 seconds of your video ad (TOFU) needs nurturing with more value-based content. Someone who visited a specific product page (MOFU) needs social proof and feature highlights. Someone who added a product to their cart (BOFU) needs a direct offer to close the deal. Each stage requires a completely different message, offer, and sometimes even a different platform.
I've seen so many accounts where the focus is all wrong. They'll spend weeks A/B testing button colours when the fundamental problem is that they're asking for a sale from someone who barely knows who they are. You have to earn the right to ask for the conversion. This is why building a full-funnel paid advertising strategy is not optional; it's the only way to make paid ads work repeatably.
Here’s a simple way to visualise how you should be segmenting your audiences. It’s not just about who they are, but what they did.
New Visitor
Visited homepage or blog. Low intent.
Engaged Visitor
Viewed product/service page. Medium intent.
High Intent
Added to cart / Viewed pricing. High intent.
Customer
Completed purchase/form. Exclude or upsell.
Remember, for platforms like Meta, you'll often need a larger audience size for your ads to even deliver properly, especially since the iOS updates. You need at least 100 people in a custom audience, but realistically you want over 1,000 to get any real traction. If your segments are too small, group them. For instance, combine 'Added to Cart' and 'Initiated Checkout' into a single 'High Intent' audience until you have enough volume to split them out.
How do I craft the right message for each platform?
This is where most people go wrong. They create one ad and run it everywhere. A user's mindset on LinkedIn, scrolling through professional updates, is completely different from their mindset on Instagram, looking at holiday photos. Your creative and copy must respect that context. You wouldn't wear a tuxedo to the beach; don't run a corporate whitepaper ad on TikTok.
Meta (Facebook & Instagram)
On Meta's platforms, you're interrupting someone's leisure time. Your ad needs to be visually engaging, emotionally resonant, and get to the point quickly. This is the place for powerful imagery, user-generated content (UGC), customer testimonials, and direct, compelling offers.
For your MOFU audience (e.g., product page viewers): They've shown interest but aren't convinced. Your job is to build trust and desire. Show them a video testimonial from a happy customer. Use a carousel ad to highlight three key benefits they might have missed. Answer the main objection you think they have. I remember one campaign we worked on for a women's apparel client, where we retargeted page viewers with customer photos and reviews, which helped drive a 691% return on ad spend.
For your BOFU audience (e.g., cart abandoners): They are right on the edge of converting. Don't overthink it. Be direct. Use Dynamic Product Ads (DPAs) to show them the exact item they left behind. Combine this with a gentle nudge, like "Still thinking it over?" or a time-sensitive offer like "Complete your order and get free shipping." The goal is to remove any final friction. This is often the point where businesses see high add-to-cart numbers but low actual purchases, and a direct, clear retargeting offer is often the fix.
Thinking about the best creative approach for your retargeting ads is paramount. Don't just re-use your cold traffic ads. Create something bespoke that acknowledges their prior action and guides them to the next logical step.
Google Ads
With Google, you have two primary retargeting tools: the Search Network and the Display Network. They serve very different purposes.
Remarketing Lists for Search Ads (RLSA): This is one of the most powerful and underutilised tools available. It allows you to adjust your bids for users who are on your retargeting lists when they search on Google. For example, you can bid 50% more on the keyword "CRM software" if the person searching has already visited your pricing page in the last 30 days. You already know they have high intent; RLSA ensures you show up at the top when they make their final decision. You can also use it to bid on broader keywords for your audience that you might not normally bid on for cold traffic, because you already know they're qualified.
Google Display Network (GDN): This is what most people think of as "retargeting" – banner ads that follow you across websites. The key here is to not be passive. Your display ads should have a clear call to action and a compelling offer. Don't just show your logo. Remind them of the value proposition. If they looked at a specific service, your banner ad should mention that service. It's about re-engaging them and bringing them back to your site to complete a specific action. Knowing how to begin setting up retargeting ads on Google Ads properly from the start will save you a lot of wasted budget.
LinkedIn Ads
LinkedIn is the B2B powerhouse, but it's expensive and users are in a professional mindset. Your retargeting here must provide professional value, not a hard sell. If someone from your target company list visited your blog, retargeting them with a "Buy Now!" ad is a waste of money. They're not there to buy, they're there to work, learn, and network.
For your MOFU audience (e.g., case study readers, webinar attendees): They've consumed your content. The next step is to build authority and trust. Retarget them with an invitation to connect with your company's key thought leader. Offer them a different, high-value piece of content, like a downloadable industry report or a checklist. The goal is to become their go-to resource.
For your BOFU audience (e.g., pricing page viewers): They're actively evaluating solutions. This is where you can be more direct, but still keep it professional. Instead of "Request a Demo," which feels like a high-commitment sales call, try a lower-friction offer. "Get a Personalised Walkthrough" or "See a 5-Minute Product Tour" can feel much more approachable. We've had great success with this. For one B2B SaaS client, we retargeted pricing page visitors with a simple Lead Gen Form ad offering a free strategy review, which brought in decision-makers at just $22 per lead.
The key, especially for B2B, is understanding that the sales cycle is long. Your retargeting campaign might run for 90 or even 180 days, slowly nurturing a prospect until they're ready to talk. That's why a proper B2B paid acquisition funnel focuses on value at every single stage.
What about making it all work together in a cross-platform strategy?
A truly effective strategy doesn't treat these platforms as silos. It uses them in concert to create a seamless customer journey. The goal is to have a conversation that flows naturally from one platform to the next, based on the user's behaviour.
Think about this common scenario:
- A user sees an engaging video ad on Instagram (TOFU) and clicks through to your blog. They read for a few minutes and leave.
- A few days later, while browsing professional articles, they see a Google Display Ad (MOFU) from you, reminding them of the problem your blog post discussed.
- Later that week, they are on LinkedIn and see a sponsored post from you featuring a case study from a well-known company in their industry (MOFU). They click and read it.
- Now they are solution-aware. They go to Google and search for your brand name. Thanks to your RLSA campaign, your ad is at the very top. They click through.
- They visit your pricing page but get distracted and leave (BOFU).
- Within an hour, they are back on Facebook and see a direct ad with a testimonial and a special offer to sign up now (BOFU). They click, and finally convert.
This isn't annoying stalking; it's a logical, helpful progression. Each step provides more value and moves the user closer to a decision. This only works if your tracking is set up perfectly (using UTM parameters) and you're using exclusion audiences diligently. For example, once someone converts, they should immediately be excluded from all prospecting and retargeting campaigns and moved into a customer upsell/retention audience. It seems obvious, but it's a mistake I see in almost every ad account I audit.
Meta
Google Search
Website
But what if my offer is the real problem?
You've hit on the most important point of all. You can have the most perfectly segmented, beautifully designed, cross-platform retargeting machine in the world, but if your offer is weak, it will fail. Time and time again, I see businesses trying to fix their campaigns by tweaking audiences or ad copy when the fundamental issue is that they're selling something nobody urgently needs. Many advertisers find their paid traffic fails to convert simply because the offer isn't compelling enough.
Your offer’s only job is to solve a specific, urgent, and expensive "nightmare" for your ideal customer. It needs to be a no-brainer. In retargeting, your job is to re-introduce that offer with context. You don't just say "Buy Now." You say, "Still struggling with [nightmare problem]? Here's the solution you looked at."
For an eCommerce store, a retargeting offer might be a simple 10% discount or free shipping. For a B2B SaaS company, it's not a demo. It’s a free trial, a free tool, or a valuable asset that solves a small piece of their problem for free. We often advise clients to create a high-value, low-friction offer specifically for their retargeting campaigns. For example, if someone read a blog post about improving cash flow, retarget them with a free 'Cash Flow Projection Template'. You provide immediate value, build trust, and earn the right to talk about your full solution later. This is particularly true if you are getting traffic but finding your landing page isn't converting; it's often the offer on the page, not the page itself, that's the issue.
Even for local businesses, from London to Seattle, the principle is the same. The offer must match the pain. If Google Ads leads aren't converting, it's almost never the ad's fault. It's because the landing page they arrive on makes a weak promise. We've seen that once you fix the offer to address the customer's real nightmare, the entire funnel starts working.
How do I measure what actually matters?
This brings us to the final, critical piece of the puzzle: metrics. Most businesses are obsessed with the wrong ones. They chase low Cost Per Click (CPC) or low Cost Per Lead (CPL). While these have their place, they don't tell you if you're actually making money. I’ve seen campaigns with a £5 CPL that were losing money hand over fist, and campaigns with a £300 CPL that were fantastically profitable. Why?
The answer is Lifetime Value (LTV). You absolutely must know what a customer is worth to your business over their entire relationship with you. Once you know your LTV, you can determine your maximum allowable Customer Acquisition Cost (CAC). A healthy business model typically aims for an LTV:CAC ratio of at least 3:1. This means if a customer is worth £3,000 to you, you can afford to spend up to £1,000 to acquire them.
This simple calculation changes everything. It frees you from the tyranny of cheap leads and allows you to invest in acquiring high-value customers. Suddenly, that "expensive" £50 click on LinkedIn from a C-level executive at a target account doesn't look so bad if you know their company could become a £50,000/year client.
To help you figure this out, I've built a simple, interactive calculator. Play around with your own numbers to see what your LTV is and what you can truly afford to spend on ads.
So what is the main advice I have for you?
Mastering cross-platform retargeting isn't about learning a secret hack or finding the perfect ad creative. It's about a fundamental shift in mindset. You must move from blasting messages to having intelligent, segmented conversations. You must respect the user's context on each platform. And you absolutely must build your entire strategy on a foundation of a compelling offer and a deep understanding of your business's economics. It's a lot of work, and it requires constant testing and optimisation.
I've detailed my main recommendations for you in the table below. Use this as a starting point to audit your own campaigns and build a more robust, profitable retargeting strategy.
| Platform | Audience Segment (Funnel Stage) | Recommended Ad Type & Offer | Time Window |
|---|---|---|---|
| Meta (FB/IG) | Product/Service Page Viewers (MOFU) |
|
14-30 Days |
| Meta (FB/IG) | Cart / Checkout Abandoners (BOFU) |
|
3-7 Days |
| Google Ads | All Website Visitors (MOFU/BOFU) |
|
30-90 Days |
| Google Ads | High-Value Page Viewers (e.g. Pricing) (BOFU) |
|
7-30 Days |
| Blog/Content Viewers (MOFU) |
|
30-60 Days | |
| Pricing/Demo Page Viewers (BOFU) |
|
14-45 Days |
Is it time to get some expert help?
As you can see, this gets complicated fast. Managing segmented audiences, tailoring creative for multiple platforms, analysing performance based on LTV, and ensuring your tech stack is tracking everything correctly is a full-time job. It's not something you can just set and forget.
This is where working with a specialist can make a huge difference. We've run these kinds of multi-platform campaigns for dozens of clients, from eCommerce brands to B2B SaaS companies. We've seen what works and, more importantly, what doesn't. We've made the expensive mistakes so you don't have to. For instance, for one SaaS client in the medical recruitment space, we were able to take their Cost Per Acquisition from a painful £100 down to just £7 by restructuring their entire retargeting strategy across Google and Meta.
If you're feeling overwhelmed, or if your current retargeting campaigns just aren't delivering the return you need, it might be time for a fresh pair of eyes. We offer a completely free, no-obligation consultation where we'll go through your ad accounts with you, analyse your current strategy, and provide actionable recommendations you can implement right away.
If you're serious about turning your advertising into a predictable growth engine, please feel free to reach out and schedule a free consultation.