TLDR;
- Your problem isn't your ad settings, it's your entire strategy. Meta Lead Ads are designed to get low-quality, low-intent leads, which is exactly what you're experiencing.
- Stop focusing on demographics. You need to define your Ideal Customer Profile (ICP) by their career-threatening nightmare, not their job title. This is the foundation for targeting that actually works.
- Your offer is likely the biggest point of failure. "Request a Demo" or a generic contact form is a high-friction, low-value proposition. You must create an offer that solves a small, real problem for them for free.
- Your current cost per lead of ~$14 might actually be cheap, or it could be cripplingly expensive. You can't know without calculating your Customer Lifetime Value (LTV) and what you can afford to pay to acquire a customer (CAC).
- This letter includes an interactive LTV to CAC calculator and a campaign structure flowchart to help you completely rebuild your approach from the ground up.
Hi there,
Thanks for reaching out! I've had a look over the situation you described with your Meta ads, and I'm happy to give you some initial thoughts and guidance. Tbh, it's a really common problem, and the solution isn't about tweaking your daily budget or pausing one ad for another. The issue is more fundamental than that.
You're stuck in a cycle of paying for low-quality leads because the system you're using—Meta Lead Ads—is basically designed to deliver exactly that. You've correctly identified the symptoms (voicemails, mistaken signups, high CPMs), but we need to fix the root cause. It's time to stop thinking about clicks and leads and start thinking about acquiring actual, valuable customers.
We'll need to look at why Lead Ads are almost always a bad idea...
Alright, let's be brutally honest. Meta's Lead Generation objective, especially with the standard lead forms, is often a trap for businesses like yours. It feels great on the surface. "Look, 35 leads for $500! That's only $14 a lead!" But as you've discovered, a lead that doesn't answer the phone, doesn't remember signing up, or isn't interested is worth exactly £0. In fact, it's worth less than that, because it costs you time and money to chase them.
The core of the problem is friction. Or rather, the lack of it. Meta's entire goal with Lead Ads is to make the process as seamless and easy as possible. Their systems pre-fill the user's name, email, and phone number. All someone has to do is tap two buttons, often by accident while scrolling through their feed. There is zero effort involved. Zero commitment. Zero intent.
You mentioned you tried a "high intent" lead form. That's a good thought, but it's like putting a slightly stronger lock on a cardboard door. The "high intent" feature just adds a review step. It might weed out a few accidental clicks, but it doesn't solve the fundamental issue: you're still targeting people in a low-intent environment with a low-intent mechanism.
Think about the psychology here. When someone is on Facebook or Instagram, they're not in "buying mode" or "problem-solving mode." They're in "distraction mode." They're looking at photos of their friend's holiday, watching funny videos, and catching up on news. Your ad interrupts this. For them to stop, read your ad, and then make the conscious decision to navigate to your website, fill out a form, and request information... that requires real interest. That's a qualified lead. Tapping a pre-filled form that pops up in their feed is not.
I've seen this time and again. It's what I call paying Facebook to find non-customers. When you optimise for the "Leads" objective, you're telling the algorithm: "Find me the people within my targeting who are most likely to fill out a lead form." The algorithm is brilliant at this. It knows who the "form-fillers" are. These are people who are click-happy, who sign up for everything, who enter every competition. They are absolutly not the discerning decision-makers who are carefully researching a solution to a costly business problem. Those people are far too busy and cynical to just hand over their details in a popup form. You're paying a premium to reach the worst possible segment of your audience.
The low reach and high CPM you're seeing is another symptom of this. Meta is struggling to find these "form-fillers" within your audience, so it has to charge you more to show your ad to them. It's a sign that your offer and your objective are misaligned with the platform's user behaviour. Your first, most important step, is to abandon the Lead Ad objective entirely. From now on, your goal is to drive traffic to a dedicated landing page on your own website and get them to convert there. This single change will introduce the necessary friction to start filtering for quality and intent.
I'd say you need to define your ICP by their nightmare, not their job title...
So, we've established that the mechanism is flawed. Now let's talk about who you're even showing these ads to. You haven't mentioned your targeting, but most people in your situation are doing something like this: targeting job titles like "CEO" or "Marketing Manager," maybe layering on some interests like "Business" or "Software".
This is a surefire way to burn your budget. "CEO" is not a target audience. It's a demographic. It tells you nothing about their problems, their needs, or their mindset. A CEO of a 5-person startup has completly different problems to a CEO of a 500-person corporation. A CEO in the tech industry is a different beast to one in manufacturing.
To get targeting right, you have to stop thinking in demographics and start thinking in psychographics. Specifically, you need to define your Ideal Customer Profile (ICP) by their nightmare. What is the specific, urgent, expensive, and possibly career-threatening problem that keeps them awake at night? Your service isn't just a "nice-to-have"; it's the aspirin for their splitting headache.
Let's walk through an example. Imagine you sell a project management software.
Bad ICP: "Project Managers in tech companies with 50-250 employees."
Good ICP (The Nightmare): "A Head of Engineering at a Series B SaaS company who is terrified of her best developers quitting out of sheer frustration with their chaotic workflow and constant context-switching. She's just lost a key engineer to a competitor, her board is breathing down her neck about shipping delays, and she knows the current mess of spreadsheets, Slack messages, and random documents is the root cause of the chaos. She isn't looking for 'project management software'; she's looking for a way to stop the bleeding and keep her team from falling apart."
See the difference? The second one is a real person with a real, emotional problem. Now, how do we find her on Meta?
We don't target "Head of Engineering". Instead, we target based on the digital footprint of her nightmare:
- Interests: What tools does she already use? Asana, Jira, Monday.com (these are your competitors). What software development methodologies is she interested in? Agile, Scrum. What publications does she read? TechCrunch, Hacker News. Who does she follow? People like Jason Lemkin or other SaaS thought leaders.
- Behaviours: She might be a "Business Page Admin" or part of certain tech-focused groups.
- Layering: We can combine these. For example, people who are interested in 'Jira' AND 'Venture Capital' AND follow 'Y Combinator'. This starts to paint a picture of someone working in a VC-backed tech company.
This process requires deep thinking about your customer. It's not about ticking boxes in Ads Manager. It's about building a genuine understanding of a person's professional life and pains. Once you have this "Nightmare ICP," every single ad you write, every landing page you build, will speak directly to them. This is how you stop the scroll and get a high-value prospect to actually pay attention.
Step 1: Identify the Pain
What is the specific, urgent, and expensive problem your customer faces? Focus on the emotional impact.
Step 2: Map the Digital Footprint
What tools, publications, influencers, and communities are associated with that pain? This forms your targeting layers.
Step 3: Craft the Message
Your ad copy and offer must speak directly to the pain you identified, not the features of your service.
You probably should scrap your current offer and build something irresistible...
Let's assume you've ditched Lead Ads and defined your Nightmare ICP. Now we get to the most common point of failure in all of B2B advertising: the offer. What are you actually asking people to do when they click your ad?
For most businesses, the call to action (CTA) is something like "Contact Us," "Learn More," or the dreaded "Request a Demo." As I've said before, "Request a Demo" is one of the most arrogant CTAs imaginable. It presumes your prospect has nothing better to do than schedule a meeting to be sold to. It screams, "I want to take up an hour of your valuable time to talk about myself." It's high-friction and, from the prospect's point of view, very low-value.
Your offer's only job is to provide a moment of undeniable value. An "aha!" moment. It needs to solve a small, tangible piece of their larger nightmare, for free, right now. This builds trust and makes them sell themselves on your larger solution. You have to give them a taste of the win before you ask for the sale.
So, what does a great offer look like? It's not a 50-page ebook or a generic webinar. It's a tool, an asset, or a piece of content that provides instant, personalised value.
Here are some examples:
- For a Marketing Agency: Instead of "Free Consultation," offer a "Free, Automated Google Ads Audit." The user enters their website URL, and your tool spits out a quick report showing their top 3 missed opportunities. Value: Instant, actionable insight.
- For a Financial Consultant: Instead of "Book a Call," offer a "5-Minute Cash Flow Forecaster." It's a simple spreadsheet or web tool where they plug in a few numbers and it visualises their potential cash crunch in 3 months. Value: A clear, quantified look at their risk.
- For a Corporate Training Company: Instead of "Download Our Brochure," offer a "Free 10-Minute Interactive Module on Handling Difficult Conversations." It's a sample of your actual product. Value: A direct experience of the transformation you provide.
- For us, a B2B advertising consultancy: We offer a 20-minute strategy session where we audit failing ad campaigns completely free. We solve a real problem (their ads aren't working) to earn the right to solve the whole thing.
Building an offer like this is more work than just putting a "Contact Us" form on a page, no doubt. But it's the most important work you can do. A powerful offer, combined with precise targeting of a Nightmare ICP, is what transforms your ads from an expense into an investment. It's the difference between begging for attention and earning it. Your landing page should be singularly focused on selling this free, high-value offer. No navigation bar, no links to your blog, no distractions. Just a clear headline that mirrors the ad's promise, a brief explanation of the value, and the form to get it.
You'll need to rethink your entire campaign structure...
Okay, so now you have a real strategy: a high-value offer, a well-defined ICP, and you're sending traffic to a dedicated landing page. The final piece is structuring your campaigns in Meta Ads Manager in a way that makes sense and allows you to scale.
A lot of people just create one campaign, dump a few ad sets with different interests in it, and hope for the best. This is messy and makes it impossible to properly analyse what's working. A much better approach is to structure your campaigns based on the marketing funnel: Top of Funnel (ToFu), Middle of Funnel (MoFu), and Bottom of Funnel (BoFu).
1. Top of Funnel (ToFu) - The Cold Audience Campaign
This is where you target people who have never heard of you before. The goal here is to introduce them to your high-value offer and drive them to your landing page.
- Campaign Objective: Conversions (optimising for your landing page conversion event, e.g., "Lead" or "Complete Registration"). Not traffic, not reach. Conversions.
- Ad Sets: This is where you test your "Nightmare ICP" audiences. Each ad set should contain one specific targeting idea. For example:
- Ad Set 1: Interest targeting - Competitor software (e.g., Jira, Asana).
- Ad Set 2: Interest targeting - Industry publications + Thought leaders.
- Ad Set 3: A lookalike audience. Once you have enough conversions (at least 100, but ideally more) from your landing page, you can create a lookalike audience of those people. This is incredibly powerful. Start with a 1% lookalike in your target country (USA).
- Budget: Put the majority of your budget here, maybe 70-80%. Use Campaign Budget Optimization (CBO) to let Meta automatically allocate spend to the best-performing ad set.
2. Middle of Funnel (MoFu) - The Warm Audience Retargeting Campaign
This campaign targets people who have shown some interest but haven't converted yet. They've visited your website, watched your videos, or engaged with your ads. The goal is to bring them back and get them to take your high-value offer.
- Campaign Objective: Conversions, same as ToFu.
- Ad Sets: You'll target custom audiences.
- Ad Set 1: Website Visitors (Last 30 Days) - EXCLUDE people who have already converted.
- Ad Set 2: Video Viewers (Watched 50% of your ad video, Last 30 Days) - EXCLUDE converters.
- Ad Set 3: Social Engagers (Engaged with your Facebook/Instagram page, Last 30 Days) - EXCLUDE converters.
- Ads: The messaging here can be different. Acknowledge their prior interest. You can show them testimonials, case studies, or different angles of your offer.
- Budget: Allocate about 15-20% of your total budget here.
3. Bottom of Funnel (BoFu) - The Hot Audience "Closing" Campaign
This is for people who got really close to converting but didn't. They started the process but abandoned it. For a service business, this might be less relevant than for eCommerce, but you could retarget people who visited your main pricing or services page, for example.
- Campaign Objective: Conversions.
- Ad Sets: Target very specific high-intent actions.
- Ad Set 1: Visited pricing page but didn't convert (Last 7 Days).
- Ads: The messaging can be more direct, maybe addressing common objections or highlighting a specific benefit.
- Budget: This will be your smallest budget, maybe 5% of the total.
This structure gives you clarity. You can easily see which cold audiences are bringing in the cheapest leads (ToFu) and how effective you are at bringing back interested prospects (MoFu). It's a system built for long-term, profitable growth, not just a short-term scramble for cheap, useless leads.
We'll need to calculate what you can actually afford to pay for a lead...
This brings us to a critical question that's probably been on your mind. You're worried about the cost of leads, which is understandable. But the question "Is $14 per lead expensive?" is the wrong question. It has no context. What if I told you that one of our B2B software clients is happily paying $22 per lead from LinkedIn? Or that for another, a medical job matching platform, we reduced their cost per user acquisition from £100 all the way down to £7 using Meta Ads? Are those numbers good or bad? Impossible to say.
The only question that matters is: "How high a cost per lead can I afford to acquire a profitable customer?"
To answer that, you need to understand two critical metrics: Customer Lifetime Value (LTV) and your target LTV to Customer Acquisition Cost (CAC) ratio.
Customer Lifetime Value (LTV): This is the total profit you can expect to make from a single customer over the entire course of your relationship.
Customer Acquisition Cost (CAC): This is the total amount you spend on sales and marketing to acquire one new customer.
A healthy business typically aims for an LTV:CAC ratio of at least 3:1. This means for every £1 you spend to get a customer, you get £3 back in profit over their lifetime. With this in mind, we can work backwards to figure out your maximum allowable cost per lead.
Let's do the maths. You'll need three numbers:
- Average Revenue Per Account (ARPA): How much revenue does an average customer bring in per month?
- Gross Margin %: What's your profit margin on that revenue?
- Monthly Churn Rate: What percentage of customers do you lose each month?
The formula for LTV is: LTV = (ARPA * Gross Margin %) / Monthly Churn Rate
Once you have your LTV, you can determine your maximum CAC. If you want a 3:1 ratio, your Max CAC is simply LTV / 3. Then, you need to know your lead-to-customer conversion rate. If 1 in 10 qualified leads becomes a customer, you can afford to pay CAC / 10 for each lead.
This might seem complicated, so I've built an interactive calculator for you below. Play around with the numbers. This simple calculation is the foundation of any scalable advertising effort. It frees you from the tyranny of chasing cheap leads and empowers you to focus on acquiring valuable customers, even if the upfront cost seems higher.
Suddenly, that $14 you were paying doesn't seem so bad, does it? The problem wasn't the cost, it was the quality. If you can generate genuinely qualified leads for, say, $50-$100 each, but your math shows you can afford to pay up to $250, you've built a profitable, scalable customer acquisition machine. This is the maths that unlocks aggressive, intelligent growth.
This is the main advice I have for you:
I know this is a lot to take in, and it represents a big shift from just running simple ads. But this is the difference between dabbling with ads and building a predictable system for growth. Below is a table summarizing the core strategic shifts you need to make.
| Component | Your Current Approach (The Trap) | The Recommended Approach (The Solution) |
|---|---|---|
| Campaign Objective | Meta Lead Ads (low friction, low intent, accidental clicks). Optimising for cheap form-fillers. | Conversion campaign driving traffic to your own landing page. Introduces necessary friction to qualify intent. |
| Targeting (ICP) | Likely based on broad demographics and job titles (e.g., "CEO", "Business Owners"). | Based on the "Nightmare ICP". Target the digital footprint of their specific, urgent pain point (tools, influencers, competitors). |
| The Offer (CTA) | Asking for their contact info with little value in return. High friction for the user, feels like a sales pitch. | An irresistible, high-value free offer that solves a small piece of their problem instantly (e.g., an audit, a calculator, a tool). |
| Campaign Structure | Likely a single campaign with a few ad sets, making it hard to manage and analyse. | A structured funnel approach: ToFu (Cold), MoFu (Warm Retargeting), and BoFu (Hot Retargeting) campaigns. |
| Key Metric of Success | Cost Per Lead (CPL). This is a vanity metric that ignores lead quality and profitability. | Return on Ad Spend (ROAS), based on a clear understanding of your LTV and affordable CAC. Focus on profit, not just leads. |
Implementing this isn't a quick fix, it's a new foundation for your marketing. It requires research, creativity, and rigorous testing. But the payoff is escaping the cycle of cheap, useless leads and building a predictable engine that acquires genuinely valuable customers.
If this all seems a bit overwhelming, that's perfectly normal. This is complex work, and it's what we specialise in. Getting it right can be the difference between stagnating and scaling rapidly. If you'd like to have a chat about how we could apply this framework specifically to your business, we offer a free, no-obligation initial consultation. We can take a proper look at your campaigns together and map out a precise action plan.
Hope this helps!
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Team @ Lukas Holschuh